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Sunday, May 06, 2007

Friends & The Holiday

Mike, Josh and I really had a special weekend. On Saturday, we were invited once again to the Annual Kakimoto Children's Day Celebration. There was wonderful food, friends, and of course many children! I was fortunate enough to have the opportunity to be dressed in kimono by a real expert, Mrs. Kakimoto, who enjoys dressing in kimono and also teaches people how to wear kimono as well. She was very fast getting all of the layers on me and, of course, Michael took a ton of pictures.

We also had some last minute visitors that we really enjoyed. Let me just preface how amazing it is that when we decided to move to Japan, we found out that many acquaintances we had throughout our life were residing in the Land of the Rising Sun as well! Just recently I found out that an old high school friend of mine was living with his wife and 2 daughters here in Japan. They had just moved further south from Aomori to Numata to pursue a different English teaching position. Golden Week was their time off and at first we offered to meet them in Tokyo as it was halfway but then I decided that it might be more fun if they could make it further down south to our home to stay. Mind you, I hadn't seen this guy in about 8-9 years and his wife and I had never met. I'd imagine taking a 4 hour car drive down to a place you had never been too and meeting someone you barely knew was quite a nerve racking adventure. However, after some wine & beer it soon ended up feeling as though we were old friends. Since they are living as us Military Folk call it, "On The Economy" we decided it would be fun to treat them to lunch on base and to experience a little piece of home (America). As far as we could tell they had a really good time and we were thrilled to find some new/old friends.

On a sad note, we are saying goodbye to some very good friends who will be PCSing any day now back to the States. They came by a couple days ago to donate some things that they couldn't take with them and I tried hard not to tear up while waving goodbye after we saw them for the last time (in Japan). Josh and their son have become very close and we are still hoping to keep up communications between us, especially while they live the Navy life traveling all over. This summer will be our first military PCS experience. Many of our military friends are old pros at it, but saying goodbye to them will be a tough new experience for us and it will take some time for our skin to thicken.

7 Comments:

Blogger Gingers Mom said...

I am confused. Does that mean that you are moving back to the States this summer?

Fri May 11, 01:17:00 AM GMT+9  
Blogger Unknown said...

Nope wish we could see you sooner though. It's our first PCS experience meaning so many of our friends are leaving.:( So begins the expansion of our friendships throughout the world!

Fri May 11, 02:09:00 PM GMT+9  
Blogger ReyLynda said...

Those few weird weeks of PCS (before and after) are so hard aren't they? It doesn't matter if you're leaving or you're staying....

Don't worry if your skin doesn't thicken, it just means that you're human. I've PCS'd so many times and leaving (or saying goodbye) never gets any easier. I do grant myself more chocolate chip cookies, wine, and many more hugs (everybody's got to have their coping rituals)!

Beautiful shot of Nicki and Josh!

Fri May 11, 10:25:00 PM GMT+9  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Hi!

I'm looking forward to hearing about this year's Children's Festival and seeing more pictures of Nicki in the kimono. Who was the high school friend by the way? Did you take some final shots of your PCS'ing friends....this inquiring Mom wants to know!!!! Loved the article, but I want all the details!

Love,
Mom

Sat May 12, 07:02:00 AM GMT+9  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Great photo of you in the kimono! I know what you mean about PCS season- it sure is tough and tear filled. Every summer there tends to be a shift and I'd love to say it gets easier, but it doesn't. I've found that my skin just doesn't thicken very well, so don't be ashamed to shed a few tears for friends who are departing.

Thu May 31, 07:29:00 AM GMT+9  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Hi All,
I am looking for a place to post questions and concerns about possibly pcsing to Japan or OCONUS. My wife is Navy and we will soon need to make a decision on where to move. It will be our first, and we are really torn on what we should do. The idea of selling our house cars and putting most of our stuff in storage seems daunting to say the least. The only over seas duty we want would be Japan. But how long do we have to go to be accompanied and what are the best stations? Any advice would be so appreciated.
Trey

Thu Dec 13, 06:35:00 AM GMT+9  
Blogger Unknown said...

Hey Trey,

Check out the CFAY site (Google the acronym "CFAY", and also "Sasebo", "Atsugi", "Navy Japan"). Most of the Navy's sites and many of the blogs that you'll find that way will provide some pretty good info on the local areas. Choosing a "best" spot in Japan depends mostly on your personality type and what your wife does in the Navy - if her career is flexible and she can move just about anywhere, then it falls back on what you guys are looking for.

Okinawa is an island atmosphere, warmer than the rest, but limited in what you can see and do without heading to mainland or another country.

Yokosuka is close to big cities, but far enough into the suburbs to be comfortable. Atsugi is pretty much the same, but a much smaller scale base.

We've never visited Sasebo, but it's more rural... we've heard that most people that visit there love it.

If you have any specific questions, please let us know how to get in touch and we can shoot you an email back.

-Mike

The idea of moving to another country can be daunting. For us, we decided it was one of the best times to go. Our son is young and we didn't really have "roots" yet. The military provides a good support system during your transition as well. It can be overwhelming and as I'm sure you guys know getting through the red tape can be a nightmare sometimes but all and all we are grateful that we had the Navy helping us PCS. I couldn't even imagine doing it alone. Living in another country isn't all roses all the time but I can honestly say we've had a great time here and I wouldn't take this experience back for anything.

-Nicki

Thu Dec 13, 06:59:00 PM GMT+9  

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